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Single Ladies Rx Series– Not having luck in the dating department or want to meet someone better? Choose the Single Ladies Rx subscription option. Get tips for dating, learn where to meet men of substance, improve yourself, heal from old wounds. You will receive any relevant emails pertaining to your subscription choices.Emails will arrive in Mobile-Ready templates so that you may view it on your computer or on your mobile device with ease. RSS-to-Email Newsletters are available for categories that relate to the Advice or Tips you desire.

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Single Black Woman’s Guide to Dating  has various member accessible pages and options which allow community members to post forum discussion, blog posts, video blog posts, and commentary. All site participation is by choice and subject to moderation as well as use in blog posts by Penzi, periodicals, articles, and as subjects or as part of an eBook. By posting to the Single Black Woman’s Guide to Dating, Penzi Erotica on WordPress, or any webpages both on-site and off-site websites with Penzi Erotica content and/or ownership, you grant  Penzi, Penzi Erotica and Penzi Books non-exlcusive, royalty-free, perpetual, irrevocable and fully sub-licensable right to use, modify, reproduce, publish, adapt, translate, create derivative works from, distribute and display posts, comments, stories, and other content throughout the world by using any media.

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Single Black Woman’s Guide to Dating and Contributing Authors respect the intellectual property of others and work hard to encourage original content to prevent copyright infringement. If you believe that your work is being utilized on PenziErotica and copied in a way that constitutes copyright infringement, please contact me by email at: Please add “Intellectual Property Dispute” to the subject line with the remainder of your subject. Please include the following in your email.

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